Neighbors Know My Name

Welcome back to “Love Women. Love Crazy.” Sorry for the lack of blogging the last two weeks. I had the blogs done, for the most part. I was just loafing; my apologizes. I have an interesting topic for you all. Most of you have heard Trey Songz’s song Neighbors Know My Name. If you haven’t, I advise you go cut off the lights, call that special someone over, and give them the business why it plays!

The song basically talks about how loud a woman is while having sex with him (Trey Songz). In fact, the woman is supposedly so loud with screaming his name that the neighbors can hear them. Now, I don’t know how much truth this is on Trey Songz part, but the concept got me thinking about the psychological side of sex.

I mean come on fellas, how many of us wouldn’t love to hear our woman scream our name, right. You get this feeling of power and domination. Some of you might get so power hungry, which leads to you screaming out yourself saying, “Yeeeeaaa, you like that?...who is it?!..Say it again!” Siced to the max, you feel like King Kong and you own her jungle! I can speak on all this for the simple fact I’m a man. However, when I try to imagine what a woman thinks about when she screaming her man’s name, I draw a blank.

Sex sometimes can come off as competition between you and your lover. Instead of her screaming your name, she made up in her mind that she was going to make you scream her name! Or an inner competition to see how many times you can make your partner cum in one session. It just makes you feel like you accomplished something. Sex has turned from just pure pleasure to a strategy game where the winner gets their name yelled. It’s all good, unless you scream the wrong name. Be careful about that. I know a lot of y’all like to imagine having sex with other people (celebos or famous athletes), but that’s another topic.

So I guess this topic is more so for the lovely ladies out there. What goes through your mind when you scream a man’s name? Are you like, “let me sice him real quick” and say it and then afterwards be like “look at his ass thinking he did something”, whole time though you didn’t even cum. What enjoyment or pleasure do you get from screaming your man’s name and letting the neighbors hear? I think some of you like to be loud just because, why, I don’t know. Fellas, how do you feel when your woamn screams your name? Never has a woman said you were packing, but she screamed your name, so do you think your packing now? Let me know.

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