This weekend has been kind of gloomy with all the rain, but the festivities from my mans Chase birthday party at Tuscana Lounge did provide some spark to the weekend. So, I have decided to provide some spark to your weekend with writing a blog today. Out of the ordinary, but hey, you deserve it!
Sex definitely can change a lot of things between two people. There usually is a difference in mentality when it comes to sex between men and women. Some believe sex can make a relationship stronger between the two, especially if the sex is good. You also have those folks who believe sex will complicate things. And then you have those terrible drunk nights, where sex seemed like the biggest mistake of your life. What do all these concepts of sex have in common? They are all related to feelings being attached.
Men are usually the ones who say they have sex with women and it was just that – sex. It was nothing more and nothing less. You have those few women with the same mentality, only difference, they are considered a hoe. (Its crazy how life makes up double standards) To both of these cold blooded men and women who think like that, I’m calling your bluff! I believe there are always feelings attached when you have sex with someone. Now you might neglect not to recognize those feelings, but they are still there. The thought of you even wanting to have sex is a feeling in itself. Being horny is a feeling. The alcohol could have increased this horny feeling, but the fact still remains that you had this feeling and the end result is you having sex. Mathematically broken down -- hornyX (feeling) + attractionY (feeling) = sexXY (feelings)!
So the question I propose to you is how big an impact does sex play a people feelings? Think about how many people went from thinking they love this person to “Oh, yes! I love her/him!” after a night of sex. Think about how many times you reflect on sex with an ex partner and how good or bad the sex was. Is that not a sign of your feelings being attached? Is it really just sex to you? Let me know.
Be productive, be persistent, and be prudent.
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Call Me (301) 428-BITCH!
This feels great! I’m actually back to writing. It has been a long time, but I’m ready to start going full stream with giving you fresh topics from the wonderful world of PP’s mind! I proposed a question on Twitter yesterday that I decided to think about a little more on my first day back.
The question was, if I ask a woman for her number and she agrees, but warns me before hand that she is a bitch, should I just delete the number now and not worry about calling her? I received a few responds on Twitter from a few friends; shout out to @MsBeeKay, @fresh2aT, @AyeGurl85, and @Africstlln. I encouraged you to follow them on Twitter. One response I received was, “No, because I tell men that but I’m really not, unless you irritate me.” That was a good honest answer and it made me do some more thinking on the issue-- whether or not irritation is mutually exclusive to being a bitch.
The fact this young lady warned me that she can be a bitch tells me that she must be easily irritated. I mean let’s be honest, who doesn’t get irritated at times? However, irritation that can create a complete transformation from a normal woman to a complete bitch is something serious. (Let me point out, I rarely use the word bitch to describe a woman, but she used this term so I’m just going to run with it. Lol) Now that I know this, is it really worth it? Yea, she may be cool for now but who knows what level of bitchness a woman can possess? Chris Breezy and Rihanna is a prime example. We all know the story by now, but who’s to say that Chris didn’t irritate Rihanna to a point where she changed into queen bitch. This caused a further change of reaction where, maybe, her bitchy attitude pushed him over the edge and he beat her. Now, I’m not agreeing with domestic violence, I’m just saying, I do not want to have probably cause to “Chris Brown” a woman!
So what do you think? First, ladies, what type of irritation does it take for a man to turn you into a bitch? And fellas, when you realize this woman has turned into a totally bitch, do you think it’s because you irritated her to that point or she is just a bitch in general? Let me know!
It feels soooo good to be back!!! Be persistent, be productive, and be prudent!
The question was, if I ask a woman for her number and she agrees, but warns me before hand that she is a bitch, should I just delete the number now and not worry about calling her? I received a few responds on Twitter from a few friends; shout out to @MsBeeKay, @fresh2aT, @AyeGurl85, and @Africstlln. I encouraged you to follow them on Twitter. One response I received was, “No, because I tell men that but I’m really not, unless you irritate me.” That was a good honest answer and it made me do some more thinking on the issue-- whether or not irritation is mutually exclusive to being a bitch.
The fact this young lady warned me that she can be a bitch tells me that she must be easily irritated. I mean let’s be honest, who doesn’t get irritated at times? However, irritation that can create a complete transformation from a normal woman to a complete bitch is something serious. (Let me point out, I rarely use the word bitch to describe a woman, but she used this term so I’m just going to run with it. Lol) Now that I know this, is it really worth it? Yea, she may be cool for now but who knows what level of bitchness a woman can possess? Chris Breezy and Rihanna is a prime example. We all know the story by now, but who’s to say that Chris didn’t irritate Rihanna to a point where she changed into queen bitch. This caused a further change of reaction where, maybe, her bitchy attitude pushed him over the edge and he beat her. Now, I’m not agreeing with domestic violence, I’m just saying, I do not want to have probably cause to “Chris Brown” a woman!
So what do you think? First, ladies, what type of irritation does it take for a man to turn you into a bitch? And fellas, when you realize this woman has turned into a totally bitch, do you think it’s because you irritated her to that point or she is just a bitch in general? Let me know!
It feels soooo good to be back!!! Be persistent, be productive, and be prudent!
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