Feelings With Sex

This weekend has been kind of gloomy with all the rain, but the festivities from my mans Chase birthday party at Tuscana Lounge did provide some spark to the weekend. So, I have decided to provide some spark to your weekend with writing a blog today. Out of the ordinary, but hey, you deserve it!

Sex definitely can change a lot of things between two people. There usually is a difference in mentality when it comes to sex between men and women. Some believe sex can make a relationship stronger between the two, especially if the sex is good. You also have those folks who believe sex will complicate things. And then you have those terrible drunk nights, where sex seemed like the biggest mistake of your life. What do all these concepts of sex have in common? They are all related to feelings being attached.

Men are usually the ones who say they have sex with women and it was just that – sex. It was nothing more and nothing less. You have those few women with the same mentality, only difference, they are considered a hoe. (Its crazy how life makes up double standards) To both of these cold blooded men and women who think like that, I’m calling your bluff! I believe there are always feelings attached when you have sex with someone. Now you might neglect not to recognize those feelings, but they are still there. The thought of you even wanting to have sex is a feeling in itself. Being horny is a feeling. The alcohol could have increased this horny feeling, but the fact still remains that you had this feeling and the end result is you having sex. Mathematically broken down -- hornyX (feeling) + attractionY (feeling) = sexXY (feelings)!

So the question I propose to you is how big an impact does sex play a people feelings? Think about how many people went from thinking they love this person to “Oh, yes! I love her/him!” after a night of sex. Think about how many times you reflect on sex with an ex partner and how good or bad the sex was. Is that not a sign of your feelings being attached? Is it really just sex to you? Let me know.

Be productive, be persistent, and be prudent.