Welcome back to “Love Women. Love Crazy.” Sorry for the lack of blogging the last two weeks. I had the blogs done, for the most part. I was just loafing; my apologizes. I have an interesting topic for you all. Most of you have heard Trey Songz’s song Neighbors Know My Name. If you haven’t, I advise you go cut off the lights, call that special someone over, and give them the business why it plays!
The song basically talks about how loud a woman is while having sex with him (Trey Songz). In fact, the woman is supposedly so loud with screaming his name that the neighbors can hear them. Now, I don’t know how much truth this is on Trey Songz part, but the concept got me thinking about the psychological side of sex.
I mean come on fellas, how many of us wouldn’t love to hear our woman scream our name, right. You get this feeling of power and domination. Some of you might get so power hungry, which leads to you screaming out yourself saying, “Yeeeeaaa, you like that?...who is it?!..Say it again!” Siced to the max, you feel like King Kong and you own her jungle! I can speak on all this for the simple fact I’m a man. However, when I try to imagine what a woman thinks about when she screaming her man’s name, I draw a blank.
Sex sometimes can come off as competition between you and your lover. Instead of her screaming your name, she made up in her mind that she was going to make you scream her name! Or an inner competition to see how many times you can make your partner cum in one session. It just makes you feel like you accomplished something. Sex has turned from just pure pleasure to a strategy game where the winner gets their name yelled. It’s all good, unless you scream the wrong name. Be careful about that. I know a lot of y’all like to imagine having sex with other people (celebos or famous athletes), but that’s another topic.
So I guess this topic is more so for the lovely ladies out there. What goes through your mind when you scream a man’s name? Are you like, “let me sice him real quick” and say it and then afterwards be like “look at his ass thinking he did something”, whole time though you didn’t even cum. What enjoyment or pleasure do you get from screaming your man’s name and letting the neighbors hear? I think some of you like to be loud just because, why, I don’t know. Fellas, how do you feel when your woamn screams your name? Never has a woman said you were packing, but she screamed your name, so do you think your packing now? Let me know.
Be productive, be persistent, and be prudent.
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Feelings With Sex
This weekend has been kind of gloomy with all the rain, but the festivities from my mans Chase birthday party at Tuscana Lounge did provide some spark to the weekend. So, I have decided to provide some spark to your weekend with writing a blog today. Out of the ordinary, but hey, you deserve it!
Sex definitely can change a lot of things between two people. There usually is a difference in mentality when it comes to sex between men and women. Some believe sex can make a relationship stronger between the two, especially if the sex is good. You also have those folks who believe sex will complicate things. And then you have those terrible drunk nights, where sex seemed like the biggest mistake of your life. What do all these concepts of sex have in common? They are all related to feelings being attached.
Men are usually the ones who say they have sex with women and it was just that – sex. It was nothing more and nothing less. You have those few women with the same mentality, only difference, they are considered a hoe. (Its crazy how life makes up double standards) To both of these cold blooded men and women who think like that, I’m calling your bluff! I believe there are always feelings attached when you have sex with someone. Now you might neglect not to recognize those feelings, but they are still there. The thought of you even wanting to have sex is a feeling in itself. Being horny is a feeling. The alcohol could have increased this horny feeling, but the fact still remains that you had this feeling and the end result is you having sex. Mathematically broken down -- hornyX (feeling) + attractionY (feeling) = sexXY (feelings)!
So the question I propose to you is how big an impact does sex play a people feelings? Think about how many people went from thinking they love this person to “Oh, yes! I love her/him!” after a night of sex. Think about how many times you reflect on sex with an ex partner and how good or bad the sex was. Is that not a sign of your feelings being attached? Is it really just sex to you? Let me know.
Be productive, be persistent, and be prudent.
Sex definitely can change a lot of things between two people. There usually is a difference in mentality when it comes to sex between men and women. Some believe sex can make a relationship stronger between the two, especially if the sex is good. You also have those folks who believe sex will complicate things. And then you have those terrible drunk nights, where sex seemed like the biggest mistake of your life. What do all these concepts of sex have in common? They are all related to feelings being attached.
Men are usually the ones who say they have sex with women and it was just that – sex. It was nothing more and nothing less. You have those few women with the same mentality, only difference, they are considered a hoe. (Its crazy how life makes up double standards) To both of these cold blooded men and women who think like that, I’m calling your bluff! I believe there are always feelings attached when you have sex with someone. Now you might neglect not to recognize those feelings, but they are still there. The thought of you even wanting to have sex is a feeling in itself. Being horny is a feeling. The alcohol could have increased this horny feeling, but the fact still remains that you had this feeling and the end result is you having sex. Mathematically broken down -- hornyX (feeling) + attractionY (feeling) = sexXY (feelings)!
So the question I propose to you is how big an impact does sex play a people feelings? Think about how many people went from thinking they love this person to “Oh, yes! I love her/him!” after a night of sex. Think about how many times you reflect on sex with an ex partner and how good or bad the sex was. Is that not a sign of your feelings being attached? Is it really just sex to you? Let me know.
Be productive, be persistent, and be prudent.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Call Me (301) 428-BITCH!
This feels great! I’m actually back to writing. It has been a long time, but I’m ready to start going full stream with giving you fresh topics from the wonderful world of PP’s mind! I proposed a question on Twitter yesterday that I decided to think about a little more on my first day back.
The question was, if I ask a woman for her number and she agrees, but warns me before hand that she is a bitch, should I just delete the number now and not worry about calling her? I received a few responds on Twitter from a few friends; shout out to @MsBeeKay, @fresh2aT, @AyeGurl85, and @Africstlln. I encouraged you to follow them on Twitter. One response I received was, “No, because I tell men that but I’m really not, unless you irritate me.” That was a good honest answer and it made me do some more thinking on the issue-- whether or not irritation is mutually exclusive to being a bitch.
The fact this young lady warned me that she can be a bitch tells me that she must be easily irritated. I mean let’s be honest, who doesn’t get irritated at times? However, irritation that can create a complete transformation from a normal woman to a complete bitch is something serious. (Let me point out, I rarely use the word bitch to describe a woman, but she used this term so I’m just going to run with it. Lol) Now that I know this, is it really worth it? Yea, she may be cool for now but who knows what level of bitchness a woman can possess? Chris Breezy and Rihanna is a prime example. We all know the story by now, but who’s to say that Chris didn’t irritate Rihanna to a point where she changed into queen bitch. This caused a further change of reaction where, maybe, her bitchy attitude pushed him over the edge and he beat her. Now, I’m not agreeing with domestic violence, I’m just saying, I do not want to have probably cause to “Chris Brown” a woman!
So what do you think? First, ladies, what type of irritation does it take for a man to turn you into a bitch? And fellas, when you realize this woman has turned into a totally bitch, do you think it’s because you irritated her to that point or she is just a bitch in general? Let me know!
It feels soooo good to be back!!! Be persistent, be productive, and be prudent!
The question was, if I ask a woman for her number and she agrees, but warns me before hand that she is a bitch, should I just delete the number now and not worry about calling her? I received a few responds on Twitter from a few friends; shout out to @MsBeeKay, @fresh2aT, @AyeGurl85, and @Africstlln. I encouraged you to follow them on Twitter. One response I received was, “No, because I tell men that but I’m really not, unless you irritate me.” That was a good honest answer and it made me do some more thinking on the issue-- whether or not irritation is mutually exclusive to being a bitch.
The fact this young lady warned me that she can be a bitch tells me that she must be easily irritated. I mean let’s be honest, who doesn’t get irritated at times? However, irritation that can create a complete transformation from a normal woman to a complete bitch is something serious. (Let me point out, I rarely use the word bitch to describe a woman, but she used this term so I’m just going to run with it. Lol) Now that I know this, is it really worth it? Yea, she may be cool for now but who knows what level of bitchness a woman can possess? Chris Breezy and Rihanna is a prime example. We all know the story by now, but who’s to say that Chris didn’t irritate Rihanna to a point where she changed into queen bitch. This caused a further change of reaction where, maybe, her bitchy attitude pushed him over the edge and he beat her. Now, I’m not agreeing with domestic violence, I’m just saying, I do not want to have probably cause to “Chris Brown” a woman!
So what do you think? First, ladies, what type of irritation does it take for a man to turn you into a bitch? And fellas, when you realize this woman has turned into a totally bitch, do you think it’s because you irritated her to that point or she is just a bitch in general? Let me know!
It feels soooo good to be back!!! Be persistent, be productive, and be prudent!
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